RSVP

When and where do I RSVP?

Please RSVP, here on our website by April 12, 2026.
You are welcome to RSVP before this date! Click here

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What if I can’t make it?

You will be missed, but we completely understand. Please RSVP “no” as soon as possible, so we can plan accordingly. Click here

 

Can I bring a guest?

Your invitation is addressed to those who are invited. If it specifically says "and guest," then yes! If not, we prefer only those mentioned by names to attend.

 

Can I bring my kids?

While we love your little ones, we have chosen to make this a (mostly) kid free event! Cris' son Vinny (8), with a few select cousins that he spends considerable time with, will be in attendance at the ceremony, through the beginning of the reception. 

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We want you to be able to kick back, relax, and celebrate with us! We appreciate you making arrangements to leave the kids at the home.

 

Additionally, for those who have recently welcomed a new baby to your family (within the last year), you can of course bring the baby! Please let us know on your RSVP whether they will or will not be there.

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Registry

Do you have a registry?

We are so excited to celebrate with you. While gifts are not expected, we have created a registry for those who have asked. Our registry can be found here. 

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Dress code

What is the dress code?

The dress code is semi-formal, garden party. For men, we suggest a suit, blazer, or button down with pants. For women, a dress, jumpsuit, or dressy separates would all work.

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Please come in color and avoid black (and white) if you can! 

 

What colors should I wear?

We invite you to join us in wearing our wedding colors, which include bright summery or sunset esque colors like bright pinks, orange, red, yellows. 

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What shoes should I wear?

We will be at one venue for the entirety of the wedding, however the ceremony (weather permitting) will be outside on pavement. So any shoes that you feel comfortable in!

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What will the weather be like?

Although we can’t predict the exact weather, temperatures in recent years have been between low 60s, up to low 80s during the middle of May. 

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Accomodations

Where should I stay?

While we do not have hotel room blocks reserved, there are hotels and Airbnb’s and VBRO's available very close to the venue.

 

Will transportation be provided?

We are not providing transportation to and from the event. If you do not wish to drive, we suggest taking an Uber or Lyft.

 

Is there parking available?

Yes, there is plenty of parking at the venue, in the back. Please follow the signs to enter to the right side of the building. After you park, meet us at the other side of the house for our ceremony. Bathrooms are available inside the hall. Follow the signs!

 

What time should I arrive?

Plan on arriving by 3:00 pm to give yourself time to explore and find a seat before the ceremony begins at 3:30 pm. Please avoid arriving too early, as the venue is small and we don’t want you to catch a peek of the bridal party before it’s time!

 

Etiquette

Can I take photos?

We have hired a professional photographer to capture our special day and ask that you do not use your cameras or cell phones during the ceremony. However, you are more than welcome to take photos and videos of the rest of the night!

 

If fact, we would love to see your photos.​ Check back here closer to the event for a link to send us your photos!​

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Can I smoke on the property?

The venue is a smoke free property. However, you are welcome to smoke in the parking lot just outside of the venue.

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GENERAL

WHAT IS lindsapher?

Lindsapher is our celebrity nickname. Lindsa(y) & (Cristo)pher, believe us there weren't a lot of other good options! And if you're wondering, YES, we did need a celebrity name.

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What happens after the ceremony?

After we say “I do,” we welcome you to join us for cocktail hour where we will serve beer, wine, cocktails, and light hors d’oeuvres. There will also be some fun activities to take part in! We will take our seats for annoucements around 5:00 pm with dinner to begin around 5:30 pm.

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Will there be an open bar?

We will be offering select wine, beer, and signature cocktails. Other drinks will be available for purchase.